Results of Not Giving Space In Relationship

Giving space in relationships is vitally important. You may not realize the ill-effects of not giving space to your partner until it is too late. When two people fall in love and start a relationship, they are totally content to be with each other. But soon, they feel suffocated and have to open the windows to let some air in. Love cannot prosper without oxygen. And 'space' is that oxygen in any relationship.

If you are not giving space to your partner in a relationship, problems are bound to crop up. These relationship problems will seem trivial at first. But slowly, they will take a dangerous shape. You will start coming across as a clingy party partner. Your partner may even choose to dump you if you are not giving space in a relationship. And the bad news is that they will not be unjustified in doing so because every human being needs space.

The consequences of not giving space in a relationship will not affect you at once. You may realise that your partner is lying or trying to 'escape' from you. But the truth is, you are the one to be blamed for your partner's such behaviour. If you are having problems in your relationship, you must deeply consider if at all it is due to the lack of space between you and your partner.

Here are some of the results of not giving enough space in a relationship.

Lying Partner

It always starts with lying. Your partner will start telling trivial lies to you. For example, if you ask him when he left office, he will purposely tell you a lie although it is not necessary.

He/ She Ignores You

When your partner is bother by space issues, he/ she will start ignoring you to preserve his/ her own mental sanity. You may go on raging about how he/ she is not spending time with you but your partner wouldn't respond at all.

Complains To Friends About You

You might come to know through common friends that your partner complains about you all the time. Your partner will tell his/ her friends that you are not giving space in the relationship at all.

Makes Fun Of You Behind Your Back

Slowly, this complaining will turn in mock humour and jesting. You might soon realise that your partner and his/ her friends laugh at you behind your back.

Hates Being Alone With You

Your partner will soon start feeling so suffocated that he/ she will try to avoid being with you alone. Since you are not giving space in a relationship, your partner will stop enjoying your cozy moments together.

Constant Bickering

When two people are forced to stay together, they usually bicker. You will start observing that you and your partner bicker whenever you two are together.

Signs Of Short Temper

When you constantly keep a tight hold around your partner's neck, his/ her patience will run out. You will realise that your partner is becoming increasingly short tempered.

Serious Emotional Outbursts

Apart from small fights and misunderstanding, you will also see massive emotional outburst from your partner. Look out for phrases like 'I can't take it anymore'.

Making Plans Without You

The next stage of anger is indifference. Your partner will start being indifferent to you and your feelings. He/ she will make plans without telling you and not bother about the fact that you will not like it.

An Eventual Breakup

All these results of not giving space will pile up and lead on to an unfortunate end to your relationship. Either your partner will get frustrated with the lack of space and dump you or you both will mutually separate.